just read a community columnist article in mjs/nov.30 "gay marriage and infidelity" by thomas zachek and had to comment :    KUDOS, KUDOS!!!  well thought and wonderfully written.  i know it will get it's share of negative reaction but he makes some good points, historical and current-pop examples, that rightwingers tend to gloss over or ignore.  i won'r reiterate or dwell on these; just wanted to ackowledge a well writte n commentary...welldone, thomas!!